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Will not play or charge when placed on docking station.Pop up message states that docking apparatus is not compatible. \do not have trouble with ipod classic

Yep- the iPods made from 2008 onwards (excluding the Classic) only charge over the USB connection. Many older speaker systems use the FireWire standard. The Bose system is one of those. I believe your best solution would be to buy the Griffin Charge Converter with the Sound Dock cradle. Buy it here.

fyi here’s another charging adapater that would solve your problem